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Автор: John Duan 99 12.6.2010, 18:10

If guys hadn't had these problems - the Pick-up wouldn't be needed.

Problem #1:
The internal dialogue while approaching to the target, dating and everywhere. When the guy had a lot of failures with the girls in the past, the mind turns on and forms a protective mechanism, which tries to protect the guy from possible discomfort. A mind process is turning on, which goal is to take away the guy from the zone of discomfort.
Else can be that the guy always is thinking and can't stop thinking. To think - this is his way of life forever, even when he tries to relax.
Solution:
To learn how to "not to think" by doing the "contemplation of ideas" exercise, then exercises to increase awareness and eliminate the negative experience of the past.


Problem #2:
The fear of approach. Also the internal defense mechanism. If an internal dialogue - is the mechanism of consciousness, the fear - is unpleasant body feeling, which is the unconscious effect. It does the same purpose - to protect from unpleasant.
Solution:
BSFF sessions + elimination of the negative experience of the past or formating habits of communication in society.


Problem #3:
"Don't know what to say". Arises as a consequence of the internal dialogue and fear. Usually "nothing to say" appears when the guy is not interested by the girl or very interested, so there appears the fear, a kind of lump in the throat.
Solution:
To approach and to communicate with the girls you like. If you like the girl, if you like something in her, then you always have something to say her.


Problem #4:
A problem with the sexual center and sexual desire. Many boys meet, communicate with the girls, but really they don't want them. Sex center, ie, the animal appetite is close. The parents could close this center in the childhood by setting a taboo on sex. Or it could make your first girl when not everything went smoothly as you would like. Or the guy was suddenly hitted in the stomach. When the first center is closed, the guy wants to have a sex "with head". He wants a girl not with his penis, but with his brain. He has no body emotions. Girls feel that, and they will unlike him - the most probable continuation. But if they would want to have sex with him - they would be the same "brain wanting sex" girls. A sexually opened girl will never feel such a guy, because he has everything closed.
Solution:
To remove the negative from the first (sexual) energy center with BSFF. Then increase the power of the sexual energy center. For this could fit probably any energy practices such as qigong.


Problem #5:
Kick-backs. Occurs when the habit is formed incorrectly. Often occurs after a guy was doing something in a state of the dispersed mind. If the state of mind is overclocked for a long time, it should power down soon. He don't want to do anything. Fatigue. You can even get sick. This explains the fact that the guys on the distillation can collect a lot of phones and they won't be feared. And then you have fear and no energy or desire to call on these phones because of the energy decay.
Solution:
To be in the overclocked state a short time and only when necessary. To perform approaches regularly in a calm state.


Problem #6:

The fear of being sended. Formed by parents and / or strong negative past experiences related to the girls.
Solution:
Eliminate the negative experience of the past


Problem #7:
Incongruence. When what the guy want separates from what he feels or does. Is a consequence of internal dialogue.
Solution:
Develop your inner Wishlist. For begining, you can start exercises to find its mission.


Problem #8:
Beautifulless appearance.
Solution:
Again, learn to listen your Wishlist and your desire: to dress the way you want, how you like the most. I do not recomend you to visit the stylist. They often buy clothes that looks artificial on you. It is obvious that the clothes aren't guy's.


Problem #9:
The fear of deepening relationships or fear of sex. As a consequence of a closed sexual center.
Solution:
BSFF session and symbolic simulation.


Problem #10:
Probably the most important. No missions in life, not connected with the girls. Girls are attracted to guys who have a purpose and they are on the way to achieve it.
Solution:
First, do the exercise to search your mission, to find the germ of your desire. Then develop it, for example, by using symbolic simulation.

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Автор: John Duan 99 13.6.2010, 9:20

Эй, ну так чё, кто-нибудь оценит мой перевод?

Автор: Networker 13.6.2010, 10:13

Я не понел ты чё перевёл? С инглиш на инглиш? А где русский перевод?

Автор: ribas 13.6.2010, 10:34

Все отлично, ток на хера попу гормонь?

Автор: John Duan 99 13.6.2010, 11:03

Я не идеал переводчик, но если есть замечания я их с удовольствием приму

Автор: John Duan 99 13.6.2010, 11:04

Я вот думаю, ИнглишСпикинг Пипл сюда будут заходить?
Ну тогда пусть хоть Гугл проиндексирует

Автор: magistr_yoda 13.6.2010, 17:52

Можешь какие нибудь мои статьи с сайта перевести на английский ?
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